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Female Orgasm: Experts Debate The Existence Of The Vaginal Orgasm
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Posted:
04/11/2012 9:31 am
Does
the vaginal orgasm exist? For years, scientists -- and women themselves -- have
grappled with this question. According to new research published in the Journal
of Sexual Medicine, they do, and past studies that concluded otherwise are
suspect.
Experts (Mostly) Agree: There's More Than One Type
Of Orgasm
In
a series of essays published, experts examine past and current data about the female
orgasm. Their overarching conclusion is that the clitoral orgasm
(whose existence no one seems to dispute) is a separate phenomenon from
vaginal orgasm (VO). "We have plenty of evidence regarding
the difference between the two main orgasms, clitoral and vaginally activated
orgasm," Emmanuele Jannini, a professor of endocrinology at the University
of Aquila who organized the series, told Live Science.
Not
all of the contributing experts agree. French gynecologist Odile Buisson argues
that the internal parts of the clitoris can't be separated from the vagina, so
therefore neither can the two types of orgasm. Essentially, she believes that a
vaginal orgasm is just a clitoral orgasm achieved through slightly different
means. However, other researchers -- including Jannini -- make the case for a
greater distinction between the two as well as the existence of other types of
orgasm. (Remember those exercise-induced "coregasms" that
made headlines a few weeks ago?)
One
of the series' contributors, Barry Komisaruk, a professor at Rutgers
University, is the man behind the now-famous video of a woman's brain during
orgasm. Komisaruk and his colleagues have conducted a number of
studies examining the way that women's brains respond to orgasm during
masturbation using an fMRI machine. He found that different areas of the brain
are activated depending on where a woman is stimulating herself. And Rutgers
professor emeritus, Beverly Whipple, writes in the series that the
"G-region" (since the G-spot is no longer considered
to be a distinct spot) is different in each woman. "[O]rgasm in
women is in the brain, it is felt in many body regions, and it can be
stimulated from many body regions as well as from imagery alone," she
wrote.
What This Could Mean For Women
While
it's important to understand the physiological aspects of orgasm -- and to
constantly challenge the research around it -- the reality is that we'll never
arrive at a "how-to" for the "big O" that works for every
woman. However you get there, it's different for everyone.
The
kind of prescriptives we read in women's magazines all the time -- follow these
10 steps to a climax so good they'll hear you in Guam -- can obscure that fact,
and cause many women more anxiety than pleasure.
Even if vaginal orgasm is more available to women than previously thought, it doesn't work for everyone, or even most women. ABC News reported that up to 75 percent of women have trouble having orgasms from vaginal penetration alone, and that 10 to 15 percent have trouble having an orgasm at all, and yet many women still feel they're doing something wrong if they can't "achieve" the ecstasy that seems to come so easily to porn stars and models in perfume ads during intercourse. A simple Google search turns up hundreds of postings on Yahoo message boards from women who feel inadequate because they can't achieve a specific type of orgasm -- or any orgasm. These posts have titles like "I can't have a vaginal orgasm...and it's affecting my relationship?" "I have never had an orgasm through penetrative sex, am I normal?" and "Is it normal that I have never had an orgasm?!?"
Even if vaginal orgasm is more available to women than previously thought, it doesn't work for everyone, or even most women. ABC News reported that up to 75 percent of women have trouble having orgasms from vaginal penetration alone, and that 10 to 15 percent have trouble having an orgasm at all, and yet many women still feel they're doing something wrong if they can't "achieve" the ecstasy that seems to come so easily to porn stars and models in perfume ads during intercourse. A simple Google search turns up hundreds of postings on Yahoo message boards from women who feel inadequate because they can't achieve a specific type of orgasm -- or any orgasm. These posts have titles like "I can't have a vaginal orgasm...and it's affecting my relationship?" "I have never had an orgasm through penetrative sex, am I normal?" and "Is it normal that I have never had an orgasm?!?"
The
new data isn't problematic in and of itself, but when women feel that they
should be having a specific type of orgasm and then don't, they can end up
blaming themselves for a "problem" that isn't necessarily a
problem. Leonore Tiefer, Ph.D.,
a clinical associate professor of psychiatry at the NYU Langone Medical Center,
spoke to The Huffington Post on this subject last October. "The crucial
thing is not to overvalue [the orgasm] or
make it sound as though it's essential for normalcy or enjoyment or intimacy or
maturity or femininity," Tiefer said. "People agonize over it."
Jannini
expressed the hope that women stop judging their bodies
based on how they experience sexual pleasure. "A woman should
have an understanding -- who is she, how is her body composed, what is the
possibility of her body, but she should not be looking for something like a
race, like a game, like a duty," Jannini told LiveScience. "Looking
for the G-spot orgasm or the vaginal orgasm as a need, as a duty, is the best
way to lose the happiness of sex." So sex should be fun, pleasurable and
make you happy? Amen to that. Because at the end of the day, as long as you're
enjoying yourself, who cares what body part that enjoyment comes from.
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